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Child Development: How Two-Year-Olds Learn Fine Motor Skills

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How Two-Year-Olds Learn Fine Motor Skills?

Your two-year-old has just started enthusiastically running, jumping and — yes — saying “No!” Running and jumping is good for their development. It is important to recognize the need for fine motor skill development — especially young boys who tend to have difficulty sitting still to color.

What are fine motor skills?

Fine motor skills include precise thumb, finger, hand, and wrist movements that are practiced through tracing, scribbling, painting, cutting and pasting.

Scribbling:

Create art with crayons. Random scribbles come first, and then circular scribbles will emerge! Try flat and vertical surfaces. For a good sensory experience, use sticks to draw in sand on warm days or in the snow during the winter.

Puzzles:

Your child will begin to complete 2- 3 piece puzzles with guidance. If your child has a favorite picture, paste it onto heavy cardboard, and then cut it into a few simple pieces. Puzzles are a great way to help your child develop coordination of visual and motor skills.

Stacking Good Time:

Kids love to stack. Help your child learn to stack blocks, empty thread spools, raison boxes, sponges, or small containers. Tochallenge your child’s fine motor movements, stack items that are small enough to fit in your child’shands. This is great for hand-eye coordination, as well as grasp and release movements.

Page Turner:

If your child loves story time, make it as interactive as possible, whilerefining your child’s hand movements. Helpyour child learn to open a book, turn a few pages, and then turn only one page at a time.

Silly Putty:

Play dough or silly putty is a great way toincrease your child’s hand and finger strength. It is also agreat way to introduce a new sensory experience. Help your child pinch, squeeze, poke, and roll the dough. Easy recipes for play dough can be found on the internet.

Double Trouble:

At this age, your child is beginning to use both hands to play. Let your child carry empty plastic bowls, or two large apples or oranges so they use two hands at once. This helps increase bilateral hand use and strength.

Snack Time:

No doubt your child loves to pick up small objects. They might use their whole hand at first, and then will learn to use their thumb and fingers to pick up objects. Give your child cheerios, raisons, or marshmallows to help learn to use a pinch-like grasp. Make sure to supervise your child, to avoid choking.

Getting Ready for Scissors:

Practice with spray bottles, clothes pins, salad tongs, and tweezers to develop the ‘open-shut’ hand movements needed for scissors. For a good sensory experience, help your child use the tongs to puck up objects out of sand, snow, water, rice, etc.

Open Sesame:

Encourage your child to begin opening bottles and doorknobs, or to play with toys that require twisting. Put goodies or toys in a jar, and let your child undo the lids to get to the prize. These types of activities help develop wrist rotation.

Little Painter:

At this age, your child can imitate and create lines and circles. Tape paper to a vertical surface to create proper grasp and hand movements. For a good sensory experience, use hands and fingers in finger paint, pudding, or play dough. This will help your child learn the motor patterns used for drawing and writing.

Puzzles:

Your child can being completing 4- 5 piece puzzles. If your child has a favorite picture, paste it onto heavy cardboard, and then cut it into simple shapes. Puzzles are a great way to help your child develop coordination of visual and motor skills.

Sky Scrapers:

Your child may now be able to stack as many as 5 or 6 objects. You may also begin teaching your child how to line up object horizontally or in a row, to make a train or truck they can push around. Use blocks, raison boxes, sponges or small containers.

Kitchen Helper:

Your child may love to imitate your actions. When you are busy making dinner or baking, let your child pretend they are working too. Give them simple tools to play with, and that will increase their hand dexterity and strength at the same time. For example, let your child stir water in a bowl with a spatula, use a garlic press with play dough, wipe the tables with a washcloth, play and make drawings in salt on a cookie tray, or scrub vegetables with a cloth or brush. These activities will strength fine motor abilities, and give your child new sensory experiences.

Snack Time:

At this age, your child should be using his or her thumb and fingers to pick up foods. Give your child cheerios, raisons, or marshmallows to help learn these skills. Make sure to supervise your child to avoid choking. For other foods, encourage the use of a spoon and fork to increase coordination and control of the hands. 

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4 Educational Toys That Toddlers Love

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When children start to walk more steadily, run, push, pull, climb and grab things – they are growing from infants to toddlers. Between their first and second birthdays, they begin to do things like – to flip light switches, pour things in and out of containers, unwrap packages and empty drawers.


The toddler stage is very important in a child’s life. It is the time between infancy and childhood when a child learns and grows in many ways. Everything that happens to the toddler is meaningful.


I am a mother of two boys who I love dearly. I decided to stay home and raise my children with the best education and values I could provide. We made sacrifices and reorganized our lives for them.

I learned the importance of educational toys as we saw our sons playing together with toys all around the house. This is when I realized the value of educational toys and started

Ehome 15 Types 22pcs Wooden Percussion Instruments Toy for Kids Preschool Educational, Musical Toys Set for Boys and Girls with Storage Backpack

ABC Sound Book For Children

 English Letters & Words Learning Book, Fun Educational Toy. Learning Activities for Letters, Words, Numbers, Shapes, Colors, and Animals for Toddlers

Melissa & Doug Shape Sorting Cube –

Classic Wooden Toy With 12 Shapes

Vstarner Stacking Cups

Baby Toys Early Educational Toddler Toys Baby Bath Toys & Rubber Animals BPA Free Recommended Baby Toys for 0 1 2 3 4-5-year-old Boys and Girls .(14 Pcs)

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How to Stop Toddler from Biting Other Children

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When Toddlers Bite: How to Respond and Prevent

by Leslie Marley

Biting is normal behavior, and there are numerous reasons why toddlers bite. At this age, children are learning to express and manage emotions. That may mean that emotions like anger or frustration come out in the form of biting. Toddlers may lack the necessary language skills to express that anger.

Toddler biting could also be due to teething or feeling overwhelmed by light and sounds in an environment. For toddlers, biting can even be a way of showing affection. In most instances, children aren’t doing it to cause harm.

How to Prevent Baby Biting

While children typically outgrow this behavior, it’s important to know some tips so you can respond appropriately and prevent future occurrences. Here are some tips to curb toddler biting.

Look Out for Warning Signs

As a parent, you need to be aware if there are any actions or circumstances that typically precede the behavior. Pay attention to what happens before a bite, where your child was located, and who your child played with. You may begin to notice a pattern in when and how your child bites, and with this knowledge, you can intervene to prevent biting before it occurs.

Distract Your Toddler

Before your toddler has a chance to bite, you can step in and distract him or her. You can offer a toy to play with or read a book. Either way, you merely need to shift your child’s attention away from the circumstances that may be causing tension or frustration.
If biting is due to teething, look for something like a warm washcloth or teething ring for them to chew on.

Read Books About Biting

Books are a great way to teach. Read books about biting that reinforce positive behavior, like Teeth Are Not for Biting by Elizabeth Verdick. As you read the book, ask your child questions, such as what he or she believes the characters feel on each page. This reinforces the association between feelings and words.

What to Do if Your Toddler Bites

Even with these prevention tips, biting can still occur. Here are some tips to keep in mind if/when your child bites.

Keep Feelings in Check

In the event a toddler bites you or someone else, try your best not to get angry or frustrated. Calmly count to 10 before talking to your child. Once you’re in a quiet area, communicate in a way that he or she can understand. Simply say, “Biting hurts. You hurt me and that makes me sad.” Your conversation should be succinct and clear, so your toddler can comprehend.

Importantly, avoid using punitive words that makes biting sound bad. A simple but direct conversation is preferable over negative language and reinforcement.

Give Attention to the Child Who Was Bitten

When your child bites another toddler, you should give more attention to the child who was hurt. After you inform your child that what he or she did caused harm, you want to shift focus to the other toddler. This communicates to your child that biting will not result in more attention.

Encourage Language Skills

Biting typically occurs in younger toddlers who haven’t developed language skills yet. As your child acquires new vocabulary, look for opportunities to reinforce the importance of using words to explain feelings.
Remember that labeling and understanding emotions takes time for young children. In addition to language, other emotional management techniques can be helpful in reducing frustration, especially for toddlers who are just beginning to learn verbal communication.

Talk with Your Child’s Teacher

It’s likely that your toddler’s biting behavior occurs in other situations, not just at home. If your child is in daycare, ask the teacher for recommendations to curb the behavior. If your child is biting in the classroom, the best thing you and the teacher can do is be consistent with how you handle it.

Biting is a normal part of development, but it becomes a concern when it occurs in social situations. Try some of these tips at home to help your child reduce his or her urge to bite. In addition to these tips, remember that your child will likely stop biting on his or her own once they learn language skills and self-expression.